Calling. Career. Just a Job. Here’s Why the Difference Matters More Than Ever.
By Connie Podesta, Business Motivational Keynote Speaker & Human Behavior Expert
After decades of speaking to and coaching thousands of professionals across every industry you can imagine, one truth has stood out like a flashing neon sign:
People show up to work in one of three very different ways.
And which one you fall into? Changes everything—your success, your satisfaction, even your sanity.
Let’s break it down. See which category fits you best. And more importantly—what to do about it.
1. A CALLING
This isn’t something you chose. It’s something you are.
You don’t just “do the work”—you are the work. Whether it’s selling, teaching, building, leading, designing, or caregiving… it flows through you like second nature.
Take me. I’ve always known I was meant to speak. Whether I was counseling, teaching, managing, coaching, or on a stage—speaking was my through line. And no matter the role, I found a way to weave that passion in. That’s what a calling does. It doesn’t ask for permission—it demands presence.
Calling Traits:
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You’re self-motivated. You don’t need praise, prizes, or perks (although hey, they don’t hurt).
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You’re your own coach, critic, cheerleader, and drill sergeant.
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You thrive on growth. On mastery. On making an impact.
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You’re rarely trapped—because your talent is transferable. You’ll find your way.
Pro tip:
Callings often lead to entrepreneurship. Why? Because when you’re wired to create, lead, and innovate—you don’t wait around for someone to hand you a job description. You write your own.
2. A CAREER
You’ve got ambition. Goals. Drive. You want to succeed, climb, achieve.
But there’s a disconnect. The job you’re in? Doesn’t yet light you up. It’s respectable, sure. It pays the bills. But something’s missing. And deep down, you know it.
I’ve been there. Working hard, ticking boxes, hitting goals—and still thinking, “There’s got to be more than this.”
You know what? There was. When I started bringing my innate talent (mentoring, coaching, leading) into the job I already had, everything shifted. I didn’t quit—I aligned. That’s when the career became something more.
Career Traits:
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You want to grow—but sometimes feel stuck or uninspired.
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Training feels like a chore. Time drags.
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You rely more on external motivation: praise, promotions, raises.
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You may feel guilty about leaving, even if it no longer fits.
Pro tip:
Start weaving your natural strengths into your current role. Volunteer to lead, mentor, train, or create. The job doesn’t have to change—you do. And when you do, everything else can follow.
3. JUST A JOB
Let’s be blunt: This is survival mode.
You’re there for the paycheck. End of story.
And listen—I get it. We’ve all been there. Sometimes you need that job. You’ve got bills. Kids. Commitments. But when the paycheck is the only reward? Every hour feels like a week.
And if you’re not careful? That disconnection becomes resentment. Apathy. Burnout. You start doing the bare minimum—and then wonder why you’re not being recognized or rewarded. Here’s the truth: If you bring as little as possible to the table, eventually… you won’t be invited to sit at it.
Job Traits:
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You’re counting the minutes (and the days) until Friday.
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You don’t feel seen. Or challenged. Or motivated.
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You’ve stopped growing. And maybe… even stopped caring.
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But here’s the kicker: You haven’t stopped complaining.
Pro tip:
Even in “just a job,” you can find meaning—but only if you create it. Look for small ways to add value. Take initiative. Explore what you do love, and begin the transition from paycheck-chaser to purpose-seeker.
So… Which Are You?
Calling? Keep going. Keep growing. You’re on fire—now light up others.
Career? Time to integrate your real gifts into the work you do. That shift? It’s everything.
Job? No shame. But don’t stay stuck. You deserve better—and the path starts with you.
Final Thought:
This isn’t just about how you spend your time from 9 to 5. It’s about how you feel about that time. Fulfilled? Frustrated? Fired up?
There are a million ways to work—but only one YOU.
And life’s too short to spend it anywhere that doesn’t honor the value you bring to the table.
Here’s quick video I did on this topic…
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